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Tribute to Brenda Alder, 1940 - 2026

Brenda meeting her great-granddaughter Lilly

Bethany’s wedding

With Sarah, Bethany and Rob

Happy times in the garden

Brenda loved being a nanny to Rob

Lots of lovely Christmas’s

The sheer joy Mum got from cats!

Mum could always lean on Rob -

And she always smiled for Bethany

Dedicated to the memory of Brenda Alder

This site is a tribute to Brenda Alder. She is much loved and will always be remembered.

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The Royal Society for the Protection of Birds (RSPB)

Many happy memories, growing up in Norfolk, - not least the pigs, chickens and Minnie the goat, and not forgetting the only time I was ever a bridesmaid! Re-untied with John, rest in peace, Auntie Brenda.

Viv & Roy Newitt

And she always smiled for Bethany

Mum could always lean on Rob -

The sheer joy Mum got from cats!

Lots of lovely Christmas’s

And to Bethany

Brenda loved being a nanny to Rob

Happy times in the garden

Precious memory

Precious memory

With Sarah, Bethany and Rob

Bethany’s wedding

Brenda meeting her great-granddaughter Lilly

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.

Extract from a poem by Henry Scott Holland

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Brenda. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.

Sent by Co-op Funeralcare on 04/02/2026